Agreed. One very rare exception: This year, I watched as a kid who was down 10-0 successfully hit a leg cradle in a scramble. The opponent worked his way off his back, but looked as if someone had taken his batteries out. He just had no energy. The score was now 10-5, and the leg cradler then immediately hits a crossface cradle to win by pin in the third. The other wrestler stumbled off the mat, embarrassed and perhaps broken. I have no doubt he was the better wrestler, but fell victim to some unfortunate circumstances.
Otherwise, yeah... you're generally a jerk.