We as a community should fear indifference to bad, evil, or incompetence just as much - if not more - than the acts themselves.
Bad is bad. Evil is evil. Incompetence is incompetence. Once a certain line is crossed, it’s unacceptable by any standard.
Letting a wrestler stick their thumb up a training partner’s keester is simply bad.
Grooming underage people - regardless of gender - is unequivocally evil.
Failing to follow proper procedures to ensure a thorough investigation is the definition of incompetence.
To act as if these things are not bad, evil, or incompetent is just as damaging as committing the act itself, because you are verbally excusing the acts. Words have value, and so does our courage to call out what’s truly wrong.
Yes, there’s a legal process that must play out to determine guilt. But even before that, defending any of these actions - or trying to claim they aren’t evil, bad, or incompetent - is phucking abhorrent.