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Got the call early this morning from a friend who should have been coaching his team at a college tournament out east. Knowing well the guy who made the call, I thought he was going to tell me something funny, but it was the opposite of that. Drew Pariano, our friend and former colleague, had passed yesterday. To say that my friend and I (and so many others are, too) are gutted by this news is as big an understatement as I can make. I don't cry often, but today I have a few times.

A 3x Ohio State Champion and 3X NCAA Qualifier for Northwestern U. made Drew's athletic career something to applaud, though he would disagree and loved to talk about his teammates and his brother becoming All-Americans.

As a coach, Drew could be a polarizing figure within the sport. His coaching mind was razor sharp and his wit was no less potent. He was a guy who saw a different way to do things that often eschewed the norms of wrestling, and he found a lot of success with it as a coach. He didn't mind the side eye he often received from the purists, because the results of his teams spoke for themselves. He made a lot of stuff happen at a school that never made easy success for wrestling.

As a friend, if you were in Drew's circle, you knew it. He loved to tell stories and make people laugh. He loved to have friendly debates, and always backed up his ideas with facts, unless he could tell that he was getting the best of someone, then he would make those discussions lighthearted. Drew checked in on those he loved and always talked about the accomplishments of others. Being in their orbits was good enough for Drew. He was comfortable in his own skin and didn't need or want the spotlight.

Anytime you asked Drew about how he was doing, he always steered the conversation in another direction, especially back to with whomever he was speaking. He was curious and engaged about and with others, always asking questions and analyzing people, but kept up a wall about himself. That made it hard to help him at times, though my last conversation with him two weeks ago today was about struggling with the unexpected loss of loved ones. We agreed we would call one another when we weren't feeling our best, but that was really Drew telling me, "I'm here for you." I knew that about him.

Drew had his faults and his detractors, but his efforts to put more good into this world than bad were crystal clear. The world was a better place with Andrew Pariano in it. He will be missed greatly.

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1 hour ago, Tom formerly Tofurky said:

Got the call early this morning from a friend who should have been coaching his team at a college tournament out east. Knowing well the guy who made the call, I thought he was going to tell me something funny, but it was the opposite of that. Drew Pariano, our friend and former colleague, had passed yesterday. To say that my friend and I (and so many others are, too) are gutted by this news is as big an understatement as I can make. I don't cry often, but today I have a few times.

A 3x Ohio State Champion and 3X NCAA Qualifier for Northwestern U. made Drew's athletic career something to applaud, though he would disagree and loved to talk about his teammates and his brother becoming All-Americans.

As a coach, Drew could be a polarizing figure within the sport. His coaching mind was razor sharp and his wit was no less potent. He was a guy who saw a different way to do things that often eschewed the norms of wrestling, and he found a lot of success with it as a coach. He didn't mind the side eye he often received from the purists, because the results of his teams spoke for themselves. He made a lot of stuff happen at a school that never made easy success for wrestling.

As a friend, if you were in Drew's circle, you knew it. He loved to tell stories and make people laugh. He loved to have friendly debates, and always backed up his ideas with facts, unless he could tell that he was getting the best of someone, then he would make those discussions lighthearted. Drew checked in on those he loved and always talked about the accomplishments of others. Being in their orbits was good enough for Drew. He was comfortable in his own skin and didn't need or want the spotlight.

Anytime you asked Drew about how he was doing, he always steered the conversation in another direction, especially back to with whomever he was speaking. He was curious and engaged about and with others, always asking questions and analyzing people, but kept up a wall about himself. That made it hard to help him at times, though my last conversation with him two weeks ago today was about struggling with the unexpected loss of loved ones. We agreed we would call one another when we weren't feeling our best, but that was really Drew telling me, "I'm here for you." I knew that about him.

Drew had his faults and his detractors, but his efforts to put more good into this world than bad were crystal clear. The world was a better place with Andrew Pariano in it. He will be missed greatly.

Nice tribute. Didn't know him personally but enjoyed watching how he developed wrestlers at Northwestern.

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2 hours ago, Tom formerly Tofurky said:

Got the call early this morning from a friend who should have been coaching his team at a college tournament out east. Knowing well the guy who made the call, I thought he was going to tell me something funny, but it was the opposite of that. Drew Pariano, our friend and former colleague, had passed yesterday. To say that my friend and I (and so many others are, too) are gutted by this news is as big an understatement as I can make. I don't cry often, but today I have a few times.

A 3x Ohio State Champion and 3X NCAA Qualifier for Northwestern U. made Drew's athletic career something to applaud, though he would disagree and loved to talk about his teammates and his brother becoming All-Americans.

As a coach, Drew could be a polarizing figure within the sport. His coaching mind was razor sharp and his wit was no less potent. He was a guy who saw a different way to do things that often eschewed the norms of wrestling, and he found a lot of success with it as a coach. He didn't mind the side eye he often received from the purists, because the results of his teams spoke for themselves. He made a lot of stuff happen at a school that never made easy success for wrestling.

As a friend, if you were in Drew's circle, you knew it. He loved to tell stories and make people laugh. He loved to have friendly debates, and always backed up his ideas with facts, unless he could tell that he was getting the best of someone, then he would make those discussions lighthearted. Drew checked in on those he loved and always talked about the accomplishments of others. Being in their orbits was good enough for Drew. He was comfortable in his own skin and didn't need or want the spotlight.

Anytime you asked Drew about how he was doing, he always steered the conversation in another direction, especially back to with whomever he was speaking. He was curious and engaged about and with others, always asking questions and analyzing people, but kept up a wall about himself. That made it hard to help him at times, though my last conversation with him two weeks ago today was about struggling with the unexpected loss of loved ones. We agreed we would call one another when we weren't feeling our best, but that was really Drew telling me, "I'm here for you." I knew that about him.

Drew had his faults and his detractors, but his efforts to put more good into this world than bad were crystal clear. The world was a better place with Andrew Pariano in it. He will be missed greatly.

Beautifully written.  Very sorry for your loss.  And without knowing him, it sounds like the world lost a great person.  

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15 hours ago, Tom formerly Tofurky said:

Got the call early this morning from a friend who should have been coaching his team at a college tournament out east. Knowing well the guy who made the call, I thought he was going to tell me something funny, but it was the opposite of that. Drew Pariano, our friend and former colleague, had passed yesterday. To say that my friend and I (and so many others are, too) are gutted by this news is as big an understatement as I can make. I don't cry often, but today I have a few times.

A 3x Ohio State Champion and 3X NCAA Qualifier for Northwestern U. made Drew's athletic career something to applaud, though he would disagree and loved to talk about his teammates and his brother becoming All-Americans.

As a coach, Drew could be a polarizing figure within the sport. His coaching mind was razor sharp and his wit was no less potent. He was a guy who saw a different way to do things that often eschewed the norms of wrestling, and he found a lot of success with it as a coach. He didn't mind the side eye he often received from the purists, because the results of his teams spoke for themselves. He made a lot of stuff happen at a school that never made easy success for wrestling.

As a friend, if you were in Drew's circle, you knew it. He loved to tell stories and make people laugh. He loved to have friendly debates, and always backed up his ideas with facts, unless he could tell that he was getting the best of someone, then he would make those discussions lighthearted. Drew checked in on those he loved and always talked about the accomplishments of others. Being in their orbits was good enough for Drew. He was comfortable in his own skin and didn't need or want the spotlight.

Anytime you asked Drew about how he was doing, he always steered the conversation in another direction, especially back to with whomever he was speaking. He was curious and engaged about and with others, always asking questions and analyzing people, but kept up a wall about himself. That made it hard to help him at times, though my last conversation with him two weeks ago today was about struggling with the unexpected loss of loved ones. We agreed we would call one another when we weren't feeling our best, but that was really Drew telling me, "I'm here for you." I knew that about him.

Drew had his faults and his detractors, but his efforts to put more good into this world than bad were crystal clear. The world was a better place with Andrew Pariano in it. He will be missed greatly.

 

Nice tribute to your friend.

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56 minutes ago, CHROMEBIRD said:

When I saw this thread, I was hoping it would be about a new coaching gig he landed. Sucks, we lost a really good one.

Amen 😢

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