This was a Big Apple story, perhaps someone could dig it out of old forum archives, I won't tell it well but basically:
Switzer calls Abel into his office cause wrestler(s) beat up football player(s) at a bar. Abel stands there and takes the verbal abuse from Switzer. When he's done Abel tells Switzer he can tell the wrestler himself. Stan steps aside and the OU 126 lb was standing behind him the whole time. Barry looks at him ... says nevermind now get out of my office.