You're lying, AGAIN. It CAN mean gay but not necessarily. Two definitions below from AI and only one of them is "possibly" gay. See "OR"
...and this is for the spelling "panzie" so shove that up your rear!
. Slang and Derogatory Meanings
• Cowardly or weak person: Used informally to describe someone perceived as timid, unassertive, or soft (e.g., "don't be a pansy"), similar to terms like sissy or milquetoast [0.65].
• Offensive slang: Historically and currently used as a pejorative term for an effeminate man OR a gay man. This usage gained traction during the "Pansy Craze" of the late 1920s and 1930s in American culture, though opinions on its current severity and intent vary among speakers.