You can say the C word. My point was that, in my personal experience, a lot of angry good people are going to have a problem with it. Not because they are dummies, but because they have had to endure that word while they were diminished to become less human by oppressive men that were incredibly cruel and awful to them and their children. Not in past decades, right now.
I stand behind the shelters for women - even though they don't love me. That's OK - it's a tough crowd if you're a man.
Use it, don't use it, your choice. You won't be changing the world either way. It's not about you or me.
I'll decline to comment on the N word for now.