42 states including National Preps use the 14 weight set across the county. I would say use those, but I'm just a dead senator.
4 states are using the 13 weight set(Minnesota, New Mexico, North Dakota, and Pennsylvania)
1 state(Alaska) is using the 1996ish weight set(103, 112, 119, 125, 130, 135, 140, 145, 152, 160, 171, 189, 215, 285)
Idaho has 15 weights, the old set plus 98lbs
New York uses the NFHS 12 weight set plus 101lbs
Montana has a modified set of weights(103, 113, 120, 126, 132, 138, 145, 152, 160, 170, 182, 205, 285)