i told a few of my wrestlers, who were less than compliant individuals in most cases.
if you ever, EVER, run into a situation where a cop is asking you questions... do what they ask, when they ask.
b/c i really like you, and dont want to go to your funeral.
a few years later, a few of my more high level athletes, who were good citizens in all situations learned by watching.
i was talking to them outside a tailgate for a husker game. they witnessed a man being asked questions very nicely and calmly, repeatedly, and he was not cooperative.
they found out quickly what happens in that instance. the man subdued was white and privileged.
he had the privilege of being knocked out.