This sucks. He screwed up. Big time. I’m sure he is in a degree of emotional agony. And there should be punishment (I’m not someone that will be calling the use of prostitutes victimless).
That said, I sure hope all the asshats around here and off these boards just give the guy some space to deal with this with his family and learn and grow from it. Seems like a guy who is going to really suffer mentally from the pain he has caused and the embarrassment to friend, family and himself. It is a very severe punishment already. I worry for him - mental state and all.
Back off folks.