I think we’ve reached an impasse; we aren't going to have a productive conversation here. Ann ‘rape isn't really rape unless the victim has been "hit on the head with a brick”’ Coulter is not a serious or unbiased journalist in any way especially on this topic. I also find it spectacular that you / Ann used a 30 year old study that used unreliable methods to make inferences on ‘nowadays’.
But seriously, unusual events get attention because they *are unusual*. Ask yourself what occurs more, and why you’re more concerned with the unlikely outcome vs the most likely.